Dating Advice #8: Cut ties early on If you’re looking for a long-term commitment and the guy you like says he isn’t looking for anything serious, believe him.If you keep seeing him hoping that he’ll change his mind, you’ll waste precious time and regret that you didn’t believe him.This guest blog from relationship expert Janet Ong Zimmerman contains some real words of wisdom.I love the idea that we can control our dating lives more than we realize — and I have heard the point about being who you want to attract from some very wise souls out there. Modern dating rules have become complicated, as the role of men and women are blurred.Stop dating if you’re burned out, in the wrong mindset or carrying residual baggage from the past.When you’re not having fun, the heavy energy of disappointment and skepticism will repel high quality men, reinforcing all of the reasons why you don’t like dating.If you have a hard time being vulnerable and want a man who communicates openly, you will want to become more vulnerable.
Dating Advice #1: Stop dating for a while If you are no longer enjoying the dating process, don’t force yourself to date.
Get into the right frame of mind, open your heart and lighten your load.
Working through and releasing negative energy prepares you for a better dating experience.
A man doesn’t deserve you if he only sees you when it’s convenient for him, has you paying for most of your dates and doesn’t do what he says.
Being selective reinforces positive feelings and gives you better dating experiences.